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“Dating a black man”

I recently had the pleasure of being a “fly on the wall” while a group of girls discussed interracial dating. Well, actually, the main theme was upheld by one girl in the group proclaiming “I can’t believe I’m dating a black guy!” I got the feeling she was new to this.

So while ea... read more


Text Dating

What is text message dating? Well according to the Urban Dictionary text dating (SMS Dating, mobile text dating) is:

“When seemingly innocent flirty text lead to a full on text relationship. When your textpectations are met with that “good morning” or “good night”... read more


Dating in the military

Dating is hard enough, let alone being in the military while trying to date.

We expect a lot from our military men and women, but they’re humans too. They’re looking for love just like anyone else.

So I wanted to make a post to point the way to military online dating sites to help... read more


Single on the holidays

I notice a lot of people seem to get a little depressed this time of year when the thought of going stag to all the holiday parties crosses their minds. But this is really the best time of year to meet someone.

The nice thing about this time of year is that there is so many parties in a short... read more


Tips to girls about how to ask a guy out, from a guy

I miss the days of Sadie Hawkins dances in high school. It was nice to not have to do the asking for once. But looking back now, it’s depressing that we needed a certain dance to encourage girls to ask guys out. It should be more of a cultural norm in my opinion.

So you’re a girl that wan... read more


Perfume, Cologne and Dating: More than just smelling nice

Of course we all want to smell nice when going on a date, or seeing people. Few things turn someone off faster than smelling bad. So we pour on the perfume or cologne to attract people instead of sending them running. But there’s more to it than just that.

Have you ever gone into a bakery, ... read more


5 First Date Mistakes Men Make That End In Heartbreak and How To Avoid Them

Let’s face it­­you never get a second chance to make a first impression!

That’s why, if you want to take things further with a woman, you need to show
her your best on the very first date. And in actual fact, there are 5 things
that men consistently do on first ... read more


1000 Questions for Couples - What you absolutely must know about the one you are with!

If someone asked you how well you know your mate, what would you say? Decent? Pretty well? Does your mate ever do or say some thing that seems out of character? Perhaps you don’t know them as well as you would like to think.

This one day, years ago, I was at the bar with my girlfriend and a... read more


Myspace, Facebook, and dating

Myspace and Facebook are fun sites.  You can listen to music, talk to friends, fill out pointless survey bulletins. But they can be dangerous when it comes to dating.

The other day I met one of my friends by accident while out running errands. We decide to go get some lunch. Before we can ev... read more


Guys guide to “Crap! I have people coming over in 20 minutes and my place is a mess!”

This situation happens to me more than I would like, and such, have become adept at dealing with it. So I thought I would share.

Here’s how the situation goes for me usually, it’s a little past 2am and one of my buddy’s call me for some after hours drinking. “Hey me, and (insert a few... read more